author: Vittorio Norman
If you are a musician there is no need to play your instrument for her, to keep her interested. She saw you on stage, saw you perform, and if she likes you there is no need to do anything more.
If you are a writer of poetry and she likes your work, you don't have to recite poetry for her on the date to impress her.
Just be your normal self. The part of you that she likes is the part of you that does your own thing.
If you write a personal ad which is very witty and hooks her attention, there is no reason to try and be witty when talking to her in person. If she expects that from you then either you set the wrong precedent or she has the wrong idea about how things work.
You are not there to entertain her. I repeat, you are not there to entertain her. And if she leaves it's because you stopped entertaining (meaning you set the wrong precedent) or she had the wrong idea from the beginning.
Whatever you are, and whatever you put on "display" which shows your abilities, is not for her sake. Be great when doing your own thing, but act normal around her.
If you are a writer of poetry and she likes your work, you don't have to recite poetry for her on the date to impress her.
Just be your normal self. The part of you that she likes is the part of you that does your own thing.
If you write a personal ad which is very witty and hooks her attention, there is no reason to try and be witty when talking to her in person. If she expects that from you then either you set the wrong precedent or she has the wrong idea about how things work.
You are not there to entertain her. I repeat, you are not there to entertain her. And if she leaves it's because you stopped entertaining (meaning you set the wrong precedent) or she had the wrong idea from the beginning.
Whatever you are, and whatever you put on "display" which shows your abilities, is not for her sake. Be great when doing your own thing, but act normal around her.
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